
Putting the Best Man wedding speech to one side, there are many other duties that as Best Man you could be expected to do! These vary as every wedding is different, but below is a list of all the duties you could be asked to do, and how best to do them.
Toastmaster
/ Master Of Ceremonies
This
is where you announce specific parts of the wedding. For example, when the
wedding couple enter the room for the wedding meal, you'll probably have to
get everyones attention (tapping on a glass with a spoon with do) and tell
them "Ladies and Gentlemen, please rise for the Bride and Groom".
You can also expect to introduce the speakers for the speeches (the Bride's
Father, then the Groom normally), and also announce the cutting of the cake
etc.
Lord
of the Rings
Keep them safe. You'll be asked to present them during the
wedding ceremony, and pass them to the official conducting the wedding. Make
sure you can feel them in your pocket at all times. Some people keep hold
of them in their hands right until they pass them over which is fine, but
these can make them hot and sweaty - and a nightmare to get on fingers!
Signing
the Wedding Licence
After
the ceremony, normally you'll be asked to sign the wedding licence along with
the Chief Bridesmaid.
Organising
the Troops
As
soon as you arrive at the Wedding, you're in charge of making sure the Groom
is not only dressed correctly, but also in the right place. For example, if
the Wedding is in a Church, then make sure he's around for Photographs outside
the Church on arrival, but then moved into the Church to prevent him seeing
the Bride's arrival. You'll join him at the front of the Church once inside.
Also, keep a check on any Ushers you have who will be directing guests to
their places before the ceremony.
"To
the Reception..."
There
may well be people, presents and cars that all need to get from the Wedding
to the Reception. As Best Man, you should make sure that people know where
they're going, and that you have anything you need to take to the reception
(Presents, Decorations etc).
Photographers
Make
sure during the wedding day that the Wedding Photographers or Videographers
have everything they need. In setting up group shots, they may well need your
help to herd people into place - and certainly will need you for some shots
with the Groom.
Presents
and Gifts
You
should arrange to have any Presents moved somewhere safe after the Wedding
and then arrange for the delivery of them to the couples home.You should also
take care of any Keys, Tickets, or anything similar that the wedding couple
will need later in the day.
Let
your hair down and have fun!
Above
all else, you should make sure that you enjoy the Wedding Day! You may be
slightly nervous, but remember that everyone is there to have a great day
- and as long as you relax and look after your duties, you'll have a fantastic
time! Anyone who has been a Best Man will tell you that they were dreading
it until the big day - but when it arrived they loved every minute of it